NO bloody extra L, kerfuffle, from the Scots Gaelic "to kick off in a pointless fashion" (though obviously I am paraphrasing).
What is more: STOP using the word "wanker" unless you can do it properly. You sound about as silly as I do using the words "dude" and "word". Which is to say very.
I am very glad fandom_wank is gone. While I think that there's no reason why it should have been TOSed, people were using it to settle scores.